Blueyedgirl, I must agree with Nicolette. From what you described in your last post he does not seem very interested. Now whether that has something to do with his PTSD being largely untreated or it is simply him, it is difficult to say, however does it really matter? I would most definitely not make any decisions or sacrifices regarding him at this time. If you wish to move back, do so because wish to be with all your friends, however not because of him! I agree with Nicolette that backing off to see what happens is likely best. Take good care.