my husband returned from his 3rd tour in iraq last sept. I know exactly what you are going thru.

We all change and both me and my husband have changed. I hope that you understand that.

now to the other stuff, so far, all i can say is that just be willing to help him if he does come to you. I am also waiting for help with mine, but know that I am here if you want to contact me , let me know.