thanks kathy! today was a ok day, but then i had a appt. somewhere and when i came home, he was upset that i had asked him to get the ranch dressing 2hrs earlier for dinner. I probably didn't deal with it the correct way, but whats the deal? I had just asked him to get it, If he said NO, i was going to get it. he continues to tell me, well your up, can you get it, so when i asked while he was up, i figured he would be nice to me. He didn't come out and start yelling, but he waited awhile to tell me about it. The rollercoaster threw me for a loop on that one.