i am only new here, but not new to the dating era. I don't know if the PTSD has anything to do with his personality. He verymuch seems to play to your emotions, if you get upset, then he waits, calls, and makes you feel better, so they you call , he don't return them, you get upset, he waits, calls, ..... do you see the routine. i only say this because i have been the 'third party' in many of my sister and my mothers relationships. just watching from the 'outside', seeing what emotional rollercoaster they are on, and when i say something, it comes out as 'i am the bad guy'.

i hope that he gets his therapy, but first, think of yourself. you have to fix yourself before you can help him. I would start going to a local crafting session, or scrapbooking, something you really like. I am sure that there things in your area that you like. OR try something totally new!! if you never gardened, get a potted garden that sits on a window seal! it is quite amazing to see those little things grow!!

i really hope i haven't offended you, but i want you to realize that you are more important right now, take care of yourself first. Then you can help him.