Well friends they pulled the plug on mine and my husbands friend on Thursday. He is breathing through the trek and the family requested a do not recesatate. So, he lays alone in his hospital bed with no brain activity until he expires. It is so sad to think of him all alone, his family said their goodbyes on Thursday never to return again. He is considered legally dead but continues to breathe in air. I am so confused as how to feel.
I went from having insomnia to sleeping much longer now. I can't wait to see my T on Thursday to sort my feelings out. Our dog even has been affected my our depression. I never knew that they could sense our feelings till I read a vets report. I would never want to be put in the position of making the call to unplug for anyone. I have never experienced this ever and it doesn't feel good to be on the waiting end of this terrbile tragedy. Does one wish the death that is inevitable to happen quickly so one can get on to the acceptance stage and start the healing process or hope by a minut chance his brain activity is better than the tests and he opens his eyes and cusses at all those who gave up on him. The docs definitely messed up on this man big time.
I am sooo down feeling bad for everyone involved on this. My husband was diagnosised with P.T.S.D. when his only child(son) was murdered now to lose his best and only friend. I am worried about myself but much more for him so I think I am covering up the pain that I am going through to be strong for him. I doubt it's working but I will try for his sake.
sunnydaze