Hi Kerri Anne and Anthony thank you very much for your replies I have found them very helpful. It is handy to know that people can see where I am coming from. I am going to see a counsellor next week at Vietnam Vets just to have a chat. If anything just to help me understand whats going on with him. You said Kerri about him overdoing it I think that might be a bit of his problem as well. He doesnt seem to think I am capable of running the business whereas we both know I am.He just seems to make me nervous when he is explaining things to me which seems so stupid we have been married over 20 years.
He is tired all the time always had sleeping problems. Alcohol doesnt seem to be a problem but he does take a lot of medication for several problems. My main health problem is headaches which turn into migraines a lot of it has to do with the stress of whats going on.Sometimes when he starts going on I can feel my head getting tighter like its going to explode!! I have 2 children my son is in the RAAF but my daughter 23 is still at home and she is great for a shoulder to lean and cry on:)
Thank you Jen