Hi there! I am new to the forum and it was a relief to read your post. My relationship in far newer than yours but has a similar thread. My boyfriend has had help previously and is on meds..but could use therapy again. The long distance is very difficult for me as well. I have been told so far, that giving him distance is good, but how did you keep your mind together while you were wondering if it was over?? I need help with that. I think it's awesome that you have stuck in there.