Cactus Jack,

That had nothing to do with her gender. "Getting IT" implies that someone doesn't "understand". Both sexes are capable of understanding at the same levels.

Anthony,

Funny, I liked your scientific approach far more than your original post. And, I agree with that post. No foul, no harm. (or is it the other way around?!)

Anyway, I definitely wasn't reading in to anything, my initial reaction was to take offense, but my head quickly took over. Which is why I was almost offended.

Best,
Rachel