Saira, welcome! I am rather new as well, and this has been a great place to really get some insight.

I'm sorry to hear about your issues, but perhaps there is a trend here ... that this weird behavior is ptsd related, and that these men aren't just jerks who are playing games. To be honest, I have moved on. I haven't heard from him in about two weeks. Any contact I've attempted to make with him has been futile and I am simply unable to keep throwing myself under the bus. There comes a point when you have to respect yourself enough to say enough and walk away.

If you don't mind sharing, what's been going on with you and your boyfriend?