I'm not pointing a finger at anyone in particular, but I have wondered this for a while so I'm going to ask. I have to wonder why anyone would want to be dating someone who has untreated PTSD or in the early stages of recovery in the first place. I know I wouldn't want to date me (or someone like me), when I was at that stage. I mean I was very ill, I had little to nothing to give to a partner, I didn't know which end was up a lot of the time. I know people do it, but I honestly don't get what's attractive about that. Isn't a relationship supposed to be a give and take? At that point I would not have much to give at all, if anything.