My family and friends point out things to me too, and when I'm ill I don't see their point of view at all. I'm getting better at taking their word for it, because I trust them, but it's still hard sometimes. The past couple of days I've felt attacked by them, though as I say I mostly trust them now and try to be honest with myself. It's much better though if I am able to figure out for myself where I've gone wrong.