Thanks, much appreciated.

Yep, I often see it too many times, and sometimes myself, that those with PTSD don't want conflict anymore, in that we have suffered enough of it, and so we tend to back down on far too many things in society. Obviously each action has a reaction, though we tend to rip ourselves off avoiding conflict. A little conflict at times is a good thing to ensure #1 is going to come off OK and not get screwed over and end up in a mess on the floor. Saying this, in all honestly, a little conflict from us also tends to see some pretty ordinary days after the event also... a calm down period I call it.