Hi Kathy. It's nice that you take the time to check how everyone is doing.
I haven't heard from my Boyfriend in 5 days now. The court situation for his job occurred on Thursday last week. My Boyfriends' father told me that they are holding out on the decision until Monday (tomorrow). I haven't heard anything from him and I know from what all of you have told me, that he needs his space to deal with this. It's really hard when you know someone you love is "Numb" and "feels nothing" right now, to the point of not being able to even send a text to say he's hanging in there. In my heart I know he's ok. and will come through this. I just wonder at what point do I say "hey you need to decide if you want contact with me or not"? He's an honourable man who would never just leave me hanging out there forever, but I know I need to take care of myself and will have to draw the line at some point. This is very difficult and long distance makes it worse. How long does one wait when you haven't heard from your partner??? Help!? I'm not contacting him so he can have his space. I'm really just having a bad day.