Hi , well it wasn't really a row as such well i didn't think so, we live about 60 miles apart and he was supposed to be coming here at the weekend, but he hada prior engagement that meant he may not have made it back to see me.. I said ok well lets scrap this weekend then i can go out with mates instaed, I didn't mean it in a bad way but he sort of took it as a threat, said he had heard all those things before ect....... I thought it would blow over how wrong was I ? anyway he says he knows his withdrawll is not all about me and what I said , he admits he is in a dark place in his head and cant seem to come out of it. He says its like everthing has reset and he has no feelings for anything not really sure what that means, also says he needs silence and solitude but when i said i would back off and give him some peace if thats what he needs, his response was I didn't need to back off as he wasn't refering to me, but never explained what he was refering too....... I'm just at a loss as to what to do.. The only contact we have is by messaging which I am finding very hard! He has been seeing a shrink for about 10 - 12 weeks I guess, that was really quick as well went to the doc's and had an appointment within 2 weeks, not normal for round here usually takes months even years unless you go private. I know he has been given some medication but he says he is not taking it but I dont know that for sure.