Shoshin

Thank you so much for your honesty, it has given me a little more insight into what he may be going through. This is the first time I have really been in this situation with him and my ignorance or lack of knowledge is what is frustrating me , I know I will never fully understand or may be will never come near to understanding what goes on in his head as I can never live the trauma's he has. I just hope I have not pushed him further away with my own insecuritys and hurt during the last couple of weeks, I took it personnally which was so wrong , think I went into defensive mode ! I will give him some peace for a few days then try and make some gentle contact, see what happens. Thanks again

Kathy

I understand what you meant and I do feel I need a couple of days to regain my composure, I stuggling a little as it did feel like rejection, you see I have sort of been here before a previous boyfriend had depression not PTSD and just dissapeared out of my life, took him over a year before he made contact again and said sorry for what he had put me through , so I suppose the fear of that happening again has fed my insecurity, I just need to try and understand as much as I can and not compare this to the past