Hmmm good food for thought!
I know at times it is hard to find a balance for the support that you give & get.
For me I think the best thing for me is to be honest with my hubby & tell him that I'm having a crap time.
I tell him that I need to work on myself in order to regroup & get my crap together.
I work on the theory that if it's good enough for me to support him while he is seeing his doc etc then it is only fair that he supports me when I have to see my doc.
I must admit though I have made sure that I have a good network around the both of us to help if we are both struggling.
Sometimes I think that pride gets in the way for asking for help. |