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Originally Posted by blueeyedgirl  I think what nyc meant regarding making assumptions regarding co-dependent or dysfunctional relationships is that we may even conclude to ourselves that there has to be something unhealthy going on to *want* to stay in such an imbalanced relationship. |
Ah. That could very well be, well said. Though I do believe that serious pondering about why one is in a relationship in the first place is healthy and necessary. Wondering about whether one is co-dependent or dysfunctional is a good thing in my opinion as it leads to self-examination.