I've got another question for all you fellow carers out there.
My BF finally answered my call yesterday. (I have been great with not calling him, and decided it was time to try again). He was light hearted and sounded good. Even called me by the nickname he gave me. He asked about me and my kids and what's new. I think he's still feeling a little guarded (women's intuition)...but said he would call me Sunday night. I didn't bring up anything that would be considered stressful and he didn't provide any info as to the last week and a half of shutting me out. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells. I don't know if I should let him know what has been going on with me, how I feel ect. In fact I'm still assuming that we are still in a relationship! He answered my call after all (and has call display). When I talk to him Sunday night (hopefully), I want to know if I can see him next weekend but I don't know if that's pushing it. He's coming to my city in 2 weeks, just not sure where to go with all of this. I'm a person who is very good at expressing herself, suddenly I feel like I'm holding my breath. I guess I should just be thankful he's coming back emotionally.
Anyone been there..done that??