Saira,

I'm hoping that this evening has given you a little more clarity as to where you stand in your relationship.

I can only relate too well. 'Walking on eggshells' appears to be a common thread with all of us carers. We know that there is just too much that we can't say, but we also don't know what we CAN say. So, it just drives us crazy. But, as Nicolette's thread points out, we really need to evaluate what we need. Are you getting what you need from this relationsihp Siara? I'm not trying to tell you what you should do, because I also know how hard it is to try and break apart from someone you feel so strongly tied to. But, also know that if you aren't getting what you need, that it's OK to say so. The point is - take care of yourself! Try not to worry so hard about what you can or cannot say to this person in your life. Be who you are and love yourself for it.

~Hugs!!
Lindsay