thank you all, i will definitely look up that free ptsd couceling site. he was extremely nice yesterday, then today it was yelling at me. just dumb things. i just calmly told him, i didn't do anything to deserve you yelling at me today. he stopped. he will not help with the moving boxes, he stil runs the, i am tired, i worked all day, stuff. i went thru over 25 boxes myself, and only have a few left in the garage. I just put off doing the laundry to get the boxes done, now i got 10 loads of laundry. even though he wears a uniform, somehow, his clothes, civilians, add up more than me and our son!