I guess this subject is subjective as most of life is, it's all down to that one individuals perception and the experiences that have lead them there.

I feel very strongly about this!.......

What if something special came along before you realised that you needed to fix yourself? What if something beautiful comes along while you are fixing? Do you reject the experience because you fear messing it up? No way, embracing it is part of the challenge to fixing yourself! Rejecting what could be good for you is what we always do!

Life is not perfect as we are all more than aware of - you can't always control, when, how, and with whom. As long as the prospect of sharing with someone is not potentially hurtful to others' then I believe we are just as worthy. Just as Samsara suggessted.

However, I do realise that depending on what part of your journey you are on can dictate how you feel, I feel it is vital to remember that there are NEVER any promises in life except those we make to ourselves. Promise to learn to learn to love yourself and embrace the things in life that challenge you!

Remember that each of 'us' is more than a PTSD label; funny, intelligent, insightful, kind, quiet, creative, beautiful, a good friend, empathetic, caring, loving, energetic, considerate, loyal, trustworth etc etc.........Why deny these parts of you that deserve to be loved or that can be bestowed onto another human being?

So, we should not deny that which we deserve (this is the hardest part)

Spirit x