Suppose i should explain, briefly, he was moody from the day we met ( but admitted it lol ) , didn't sleep much , nighmares, easily aggitated by other people ( not me ) ect , but he admitted he had those, anyway a few months ago he started to get violent headaches which led to visits to the Doc, folllowing tests the Doc said he thought the headaches were a symptom of depression, my fella laughs and says he has nothing to be depressed about but admitted he did get low sometimes.......... futher tests and a councilor , he tells me they have diganosed him with PTSD , although he openly told me thats really all that was said. If i'm honest I dont know if this was a first diagnosis or a way of him telling me......... but when we first met he was very open and honest about other things so I dont really have any cause to doubt this is also the first he knew of it. So to finally answer your question I was not hurt or upset and neither would I be if he had know all along , just glad he trusted me enough to tell me.....

We have limited contact at the moment , he has shut me down , feels numb and has no feelings for anyone , in a dark place he say's, I have read on here about uncontrolled PTSD and the affects during early treatment , but maybe my questions on that should be in another post.

All I know is I will support as much as I can or should I say as much as he will let me...... But it is hard when i dont know that much about PTSD or what his bounderies are, I suppose only time will tell on that one