I have been trying to talk to my husband more about it lately. He wants to listen and wants to help, but doesn't know how. Thus, he sometimes comes across as cold or uncaring. I think one has to be careful not to judge another's reaction, but to remember that he or she likely does not know how to react. I know that my husband loves me, and wants to know as much about me as possible, the good and the bad. Sometimes I have to remember that even if his response seems cold to me, it is probably just because he cannot understand and cannot know the "correct" way to respond.