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Originally Posted by Kazzy  I will be better armed to deal with it |
That sounds very smart Kazzy.
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Originally Posted by Kazzy yes i have bad days but I then have to rationalise those and remind myself that my bad days are no where near as bad as his. |
While that is true Kazzy, your bad days are still bad relative to your situation. I think it is important not to diminish your own situation while looking at another. To each of us our pain and struggles are real and we must acknowledge that. My mother used to always tell me there was someone out there who was worse off than me. While that too is true, that does not lessen my pain in my life nor does it give me the support I need to deal with it either.
What I am trying to say is you and your feelings matter too. I understand you must do what you think is best for you, just please remember you are in there as well. I do hope things work out for you though.