" we are still in communication of which i am greatful its still limited but every now and then it gets a little better."

Why should you be grateful. He should be grateful to have your care.

I hear so much of what I felt... and it saddens me that so much energy is going into these men who really want to be left alone.

The shut downs, the numbing... this is a relationship that needs to be endured not enjoyed.

I get it; I was there.

Try stepping away and see what comes out "after the wash".
let them feel their pain and learn to deal with it.

Try to let go, and see what comes back.


I keep reading everyone's situations and its exactly the same. To be honest - i don't see any hope. I'm referring to my own situation.

I wanna say- to myself, and to the women who are torturing themselves because these men are shutting them out constantly- let go and move on.

And yet- here i am, again.