Hi Langdon

Shut outs have been a common theme of late. I recommend you read the recent threads in the Carers' section.

I personally understand that shutting out people and isolating themselves is typical for a PTSD suffer but, on the other hand, do believe that it happening for any duration of time is never good for a relationship, especially a new one.

As this theme has been prevalent lately I feel I have exhausted my thoughts on the matter for the present.

Perhaps others may comment. I look forward to talking to you further at a later time and if I think of something helpful to say I will post it.