Anthony - thank you very much for your candid objectivity. She has spent tonight going back and forth from anger to wanting sympathy. she took down all her pictures around the house to get a response from me and locked herself in our bedroom and screamed wildly. I just comforted the kids and told them she is ill and all will be better. I, too, believe she is on too many medications and she drinks Vodka on top of them and tells me nothing affects her. I pretty much came to the same conclusion and am thinking of my children first. Thanks again. I will update you - I have few friends in which I can confide.