This is a wonderful wonderful thread.

Thanks Lisa for being so honest and sharing. Thanks to all of you for your sharing.

Occassionally there are times when I feel more comfortable discussing my sh issues here. But, I have come to a point where I need to sit back and read others' postings and try to start sorting mine out.

I "pretend" that what I am doing is fine-but I know I am on collision course.

I hope this thread continues with more input-as I find it very interesting.

Thanks to all