Another good day of setting boundaries
Yesterday, I let a woman whom I invited over Friday with her 2 children for lunch know how unhappy I was with her. I had told her to call me by Thursday afternoon if she couldn't make it due to ordering and making food. She had her mom tell me at a meeting late Thurday night. Yesterday at church her daughter was coming over to talk with me and she about knocked her out of the way. I am 55 years old and not stupid. She was trying to get to me before I could ask her daughter how she was feeling as I was told she was sick. She said both kids were sick and she wasn't home all Thursday. Now does that seem right, they were sick but not home? I told her she upset both me and my husband who spent his hard working money on shopping and getting food for us. I won't make the mistake of inviting her again as I know she lied. Guess what the sermon was on? Being honest to develop good friendships. At least I told her how I felt. I use to cry in my pillow with people unaware of my being hurt. Not anymore.