Ha ha!
My ex would say this frequently, ' I just don't see the need for this micro-analysis, it just frustrates me' I can hear him now! He thought I was just getting concerned over things that did not matter, they were the difference between survial and extinction to me. Indeed irrational but his frustration just fuelled my fire - he did not get me!

I know it should not really be about getting me but empathy is so key with all of this, it alleviates so many stresses.

Thanks TLight

Spirit x