I wish I could offer something like a definition but I can't. I, too, never understood what love was because of my childhood. For years and years, I had such a twisted outlook on what love must be. Then, I met my husband and it was like the world came to a screeching halt and then restarted again.

I feel like being "valued, cared for, and respected" are things that I should expect from friends, not just lovers. Though, a lover should be your friend, as well.

Love is something that two people create and not something that is predetermined.

Best,
Rachel