Congrats!

Please do not take offense at the next statement I make. It is meant in the most positive of ways. Ready, here goes Congrats on finally getting a back bone!

What you did is one of the most difficult things for me to do. It is difficult for a lot of people. You should be proud.

Hope your mom is doing ok. I am caring for my mom too, so I know how you feel. You can handle anything now-------you've found your backbone

Hang in there Grama-Herc