I can't claim to be able to define love, but I think I've seen it in several instances.

1. For me personally, I often feel it when I look into my best friend's eyes and get the safe, secure, and happy feeling that no matter what happens, no matter how irrational or crazy I get, he will never abandon me.

2. One time I was in a hospital waiting room and I saw a woman getting angry. I think she was either very ill or high on drugs. A man was with her and as she got angrier and angrier she turned on him and started screaming at him and hitting him. He didn't get angry in return; he just held her and talked gently to her. I think that was an example of love.

There are lots more but many instances where I find love are just too indescribable...