go by your instincts. no harm was done, except you got quite stressed. She wasn't harmed by your actions though, they will sink in,eventually. If not, you'll never fully know, but you did what you thought was right. The best thing for you to do now is find solace in that and move on. You're gona be cool bebe, you care. And that's more than a lot of people out there I'm afraid. The world is a better place with you in it. Next time, you'll have learned how to do the same thing, but a bit more on the cooler side of expression.