i find that anger, in itself is kind of a weird thing. being in the military, i'm used to screaming and getting screamed at for that matter. i guess in today's society that is considered taboo. but with the situation that you described above, i think i would have cut loose on her pretty hard. i don't think i would have followed someone in their car though because it could be considered stalking for one and for two, you don't know if they have a weapon in their vehicle. just food for thought. respectfully, SM