Shadowmedic,
Do you find that any one thing helps more than another when you are feeling numb or lost? When we broke up my BF said that I needed to prove to him that he was worthy of me. At the time those words didn't make sense....of course he was worthy of me....what kind of question was that. I love him. But now in learning more and more about ptsd, the question makes sense. I still haven't been able to prove anything to him as he is still in complete crisis. Lots of flashbacks (fears he is being followed), panic attacks, depression, detachment, etc.

I have just let him know that I am here for him, that I care about him and that I love him.

Sisu