I am extreamly rational over emotional. Regardless if its about me or someone else I think about all the ways any action affects any person involved before I do anything. I also do this when I need to tell someone something important.

I do this not out of fear of hurting someone or myself but rather what all the possible outcomes could be and decide if the outcome might be worth the issue that is at hand. Like say someone said or did something to me that bothers me, I decide if its so important and what it will change, good or bad, if I do or say something to this person.