Thank you Damiea and Cindy.

I will try to pick a good time to bring up PTSD again. I think the idea of first getting him to come and read this site is excellent. He has never hung out on any of the sites I do, so that in itself may be a big hurdle, especially once he hears that it relates to PTSD. If treatment is ever a possibility, it will have to come in baby steps. This place is a good, safe first step, I think, but it is a large one.

Cindy, thank you for sharing your experience. That must have been so difficult. It is good that you were able to salvage the relationship, even if not completely heal it yet. Yes, you are right. If he ever goes in for any treatment again, I think it will be one of the hardest things he ever does in this lifetime.

Thanks for the ideas! Cowgirl