Along with She Cat and Seeking Nirvana I to could have cared less about others during the height of my downward spiral. I was all about ME! I gave no consideration to others at all.

I can proudly say that I am more aware of other feelings and think before I act "most of the time".

Becoming aware of how nice people behave and having my poor behavior pointed out to me has also helped my conscious. I would like to think I have become a good and caring person.

The old Grama-Herc was not very nice or considerate. I don't like her very much. I certainly would not hang out with her "now". She is not someone I would chose for a friend now.