Hey Linasmom.

I am not currently in a realtionship but I was and I toally understand what you feel. I did not have a sex drive for 23 years!

I believe that the fact that you have spoken openly and communicated with your husband is really key in this. Your honesty won't allow him to feel insecure about the lack of intamcy. However, just because your sex drive is taking a temporary nose dive does not mean you can't be intimate?

Touching and caressing are good and can help you still feel physically connected. Washing your back in the bath, his back. A gentle foot massage. Touching him as you pass by him. You get it! Just ask for him to perhaps brush your hair or do something that is intimate without it leading to full blown intimacy.

If you are maintaining intmacy in these ways I am sure your fear over him getting fed up with you will fade. He loves you he is not just going to up and leave because you are not 100% in working order at the moment.

Best wishes.

Spirit x