Hi Rachel,
I didn't mean to hurt anyone. But perception seems to be the problem here. My point was, I just don't feel everyone is so open with their T like these posts seem to have indicated and that is why I didn't single anyone out, because there are to many that I wasn't 100% sure about.

If you feel hurt because I said "you may not" have an inkling of understanding there is something deeply bothering you here. I didn't use an absolute and say "You do not" have an inkling. What bothers you may not bother others, and vice versa. I can not predict that, and walk on egg shells when I post something here. Otherwise I might as well never make a post or give my opinion.

I think this site is to help others see different views and opinions and challenge everyone to be honest with themselves so healing can take place.