I totally agree! Which is why I have voiced my opinion in this thread. I don't think you should have to walk on eggshells, however I took your post as being attacking and felt as though you were assuming what others here have and have not experienced for themselves and almost challenging others in some of your statements (ie. try telling your therapist such and such) But, if that was not your intention, then I can accept that.

That doesn't change my original reaction - I thought it was hurtful and uncool in my eyes. I still have a right to express those feelings.

Best,
Rachel