Hi sm,
At the 1st hint of anger I shut right the he** down. It's interesting to me when I recognize there are problems, and my significant other seems utterly clueless to what's going on, and REFUSES to do anything, see anyone - whatever. So instead of taking care of myself I've become extremely codependent, and as I wrote - shut down when things get heated. (Depression, anxiety, stomach problems - ) I don't do well with confrontation either, but I am learning.

scm