As every day goes by I feel more and more relaxed and peaceful!! That just confirms for me that she was pretty much just a taker!! I don't feel hurt whatsoever about her ending the relationship when she found out that I was so serious with her abiding by my boundaries!!! I only wish I had had an awareness of what was really going on many months ago!! I realize though that by setting the boundary FIRMLY I did the BEST thing for myself!!!! NO GUILT whatsoever!!!!!! I thank all of you for blessed words of support .....YOU GO GANG!!!! LOVING THE PEACE