Samsara,
You are so right. I will start working on the email to him this week and as you offered I will send it to you privately for a 2nd opinion. I need to move on for now, he is exhausting my positive attitude. He is taking all of my energy and I am getting nothing in return right now. That is not fair. He needs to be able to give me something in return and right now he is spending all of his energy on himself. He needs to WANT to get better for himself and then for everyone who loves him. I know he knows how much I love and care about him. He said that he loves me and that he cares about me. So, its not about lack of love or caring or compatibility or anything like that. Its about his lack of ability to feel, allow someone to love him, anger, detachment, etc.

I just hope it doesn't take years....I am hoping for months. But, who knows. This sucks!

Sisu