I want to add that I am dealing with the dependancy on pot. I really want to deal with things on my own, but after so many years of not doing so, it's hard to see that you can. I have gotten my habit under control to the point where I only smoke in the evenings as opposed to as much as possible, but I am still working.
I know it's not an easy battle, but I am trying. I wish anyone who is also fighting that battle lots of luck, and any support I can lend, I will be glad to.
God bless you all!