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Originally Posted by piglet but look how far you have come without it! |
Bingo. We can all remain on our pity pots and ponder, or we can choose to do something about our problems.
CD, well said, however; I don't actually have defensive mode anymore. I used to have it very much, but not really nowadays. I didn't take offence to Purdy's comments, what I did take is directed anger, which is different to venting. Venting is not directed at people, anger is not directed at people always either, but directed anger can only be taken one way, hurtfully!