I have now moderated Tlight due to the notifications in this thread. This forum consists of those traumatised enough already, and is not equipped to cope with or take on a person suffering a tumour. Sorry, but it is like saying your going to kill yourself, same effect on a PTSD sufferer. Some may think this is harsh for me to do, but its not, it is the best thing overall for the community at large who are here to deal with PTSD, not to take on sympathy for a dieing person, or so says, as this is the Internet and anyone can be anyone they want. I have stopped it now.