I don't get her reasoning how I'm not mature enough, it's not as if I haven't had sex before, it's not as if I haven't been in a relationship, and it's not as if I haven't already had sex with a girl there while she was sleeping.. I woulda thought she could put a few things together but I guess she never did... I get the whole, it's her house her rules deal, but saying I'm not mature enough is ridiculous... The woman doesn't even know me that well anymore, it's basically like I live separately, I'm on a side wing of the house, separate from her side.. But I guess that's too much to ask, especially with the assumption that we're automatically gunna have sex... It's not like I can't have sex in the day or somewhere else...
I can't talk to mom at the moment because we're not on talking terms right now. I'll be visiting my lady friend tomorrow so I won't talk to my mom for a while, which I'm fine with because she won't explain or budge she's just stubborn enough to expect me to collapse which I'm sick of doing. I tried to understand her reasoning more, but she just said the same stuff about my maturity and that she was done talking about it.
I guess she's just having a lot of trouble letting go, but I'd think she'd be better about it seeing how she's gone so much and how I take care of myself. I look at it as only fair to ask when I pitch in on an independent level that's much different from the relationships all my friends have with their parent(s)
Thanks for your views... and yea Mexico was a lot of fun, nice and warm, wild night life, and real nice people. |