Thread: Question What is Emotional Abuse
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Old 29-03-2008, 01:35 PM
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Hmm, I am inclined to mind my own business.

Hearing only one side and version of the story, biases my opinion. That is, if my opinion is even asked for! There is the possibilty that sharing your opinion may damage your relationship with your friend. Maybe, they can't handle the truth and reject you and your opinion even if they ask for it.

I have minded my own business regarding a friend's relationship. We discussed the value in being honest vs. not getting involved. Since then our frienship has evolved. Recently, I was more comfortable being honest knowing how he felt about it. He ended the relationship he was in. He expressed how much he appreciated me and my friendship. However, I wouldn't have said anything if it wasn't for the discussion we had before though.

Awakening, life and people are tricky sometimes aren't they?

Thankful that I don't have much experience with this,
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